What to do when dating two guys
So I when I ended up hooking up with a guy recently I remembered that I haven’t waxed in a while and freaked out in my head.Mid-makeout sesh when we were trying to decide if it was going any further, I casually mentioned that I hadn’t waxed and would rather wait until after.I generally do it for me, but I guess I’ve been waxing for so long that now I get insecure if I’m with a guy and haven’t gotten things cleaned up down there.Which is weird because I’ll go forever without shaving my legs but will never miss a wax appointment.It was really refreshing actually to hear a guy tell me that he didn’t care because I think it’s something that was subconsciously in my head. Have you ever ended a hookup because you hadn’t waxed or shaved? If you don’t have time to wax or shave or whatever, don’t worry. There a couple of things one can do to meet people, particularly if over 40. Eat out, grab coffee, and hang out at different places each week.Go to any party you're invited to, join clubs with people who do what you like to do, volunteer, get involved socially. As a dating coach, I know that people resist it because they're scared to try something so unfamiliar to them.
Shaving drives my sensitive skin up the wall, waxing lasts longer and I just like to do it.I am 44 years old and entering the dating scene again for the first time in 25 years. I am not doing the online singles sites…that is just scary to me. I am new in town, with a few happily married friends. So much of my time was taken up with caring for someone else that now I just don’t know how to fill that time. Thanks for highlighting an important principle for women over 40 seeking love: You will not find it unless you do something differently. It’s called Match.com, it’s open 24 hours a day, and it costs a lot less than getting on a plane and hoping to sit next to a 45-year-old eligible bachelor.